I'm a friend. The one they usually run to when they need to talk. I'm a very sensible person. I talk straight and do not sugarcoat anything just to make a point.
I have lots of friends who need help and I try my best to give them my point of view and what particular solution I could offer if I were in their situation. This is kind of awkward do discuss with most of my female friends. I fell short helping them since I couldn't relate that much in some aspects of their life. I've got friends who are single moms now. This is where my dilemma started.
I don't think I'm the right person to ask in this field because first of all I'm a guy. I may have opinions of my own but it would be slightly general if I attempt to help them. I am no professional nor am I claiming to be the best person to talk to. I am not and wouldn't be in their situation of course but I know if these women get together and share their experiences, it would be better for them to learn from the mistakes they made living that way. It’s non conventional I know but there are thousands if not millions of other women in that situation that may have survived what they are experiencing now. This I guess is better than a guy telling them what to do with their lives.
Single Parent Chat services are now available in http://www.singleparentchatcity.com/ ; so if they need some advise from real people anytime in the world, this I think would really be helpful. Men and women from different walks of life help each other. This I think would be better than that self help book they’d pretend to read in stores. Again, this is my hope for those who need help in a matter I’m no expert on. Try to live this world a little better than when you found it, so when your turn comes to move on you will have a happy feeling that you have not wasted your time but have done your best.